Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Sorrow and Joy

The chronic winter blues that I see and feel all around me, drew me to this passage in a book I haven't looked at in many years, The Prophet, by Kahlil Gibran.

Then a woman said, Speak to us of Joy and Sorrow.
And he answered:
Your joy is your sorrow unmasked.
And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears.
And how else can it be?
The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.
Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter’s oven?
And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives?
When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
Some of you say, “Joy is greater than sorrow,” and others say, “Nay, sorrow is the greater.”
But I say unto you, they are inseparable.
Together they come, and when one sits alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep upon your bed.
Verily you are suspended like scales between your sorrow and your joy.
Only when you are empty are you at standstill and balanced.
When the treasure-keeper lifts you to weigh his gold and his silver, needs must your joy or your sorrow rise or fall.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thanks for posting this, Jen. It's been a while since I've read Gibran, but I think he's right on when it comes to sorrow and joy. And it's the reason I don't think I'll ever be able to live outside of the midwest...the joy of the spring is too dependent on the sorrow of the winter to live in a place where there is no sorrowful winter.

kborn said...

Wow. You're deep these days. I wouldn't mind reading some of these books you speak of...do you own or borrow from the library??

Also, Quinn is honored to be on your list of "26 places you'd rather be". :)